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Funeral Director Reaction to FCA Article Split

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-  Josh Slocum, FCA Executive Director

I posted my commentary on NFDA's Green Burial Idemnification form to a funeral director's email discussion list. I wanted to know what the members thought of the issue. The split in the responses has been fascinating. Several funeral directors offered thoughtful, considered, and pro-consumer positions. This alone made the post worth it. Despite what some undertakers think, I actually like meeting thoughtful industry people to put on my electronic Rolodex. If I didn't have a group of trustworthy, honest people in the business to consult with and learn from, I couldn't do my job effectively.

But whoah, nelly, did the conversation take a wrong turn. I started a brief discussion about the practice of mandating that customers do an "identification viewing" of a dead body, and a funeral director who calls herself "Morticia" went apoplectic. I'm still wondering what I said that got her formaldehyde boiling over. See if you can figure it out. I've pasted the good, the bad, and the ugly below.  Comments welcome and encouraged. . ..

Last Updated ( Wednesday, 24 September 2008 19:45 ) Read more...
 

NFDA Lawyer Uses Scare Tactics on Green Burial Customers

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An Open Letter to the National Funeral Directors Association

- Posted by Josh Slocum, Executive Director, Funeral Consumers Alliance

Dear NFDA,

I was delighted to see the latest issue of your magazine, The Director, staring at me with its inviting cover. "The Growth of Green" leaped out. NFDA is getting behind green funeral options? Great! FCA hears from so many consumers who want an ecologically friendly send-off, and the more mainstream funeral businesses that get on board, the easier it will be for us to help them.

As usual, Chris Raymond's editorial was spot-on:

Whether you're aware of it or not, presently strive to offer green options or just hope the whole thing will go away, I urge you not to dismiss growing consumer consciousness of the burden of their "ecological footprint" will have on future generations as a mere fad . . . .jump on the green bandwagon by making sure your firm offers a variety of green products/services at a range of prices and advertise this fact to your community.

Click "read more" for  our dissection of the unfounded nonsense NFDA has published about green burial. . .
Last Updated ( Wednesday, 03 September 2008 17:57 ) Read more...
 

Radioactive Interview

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FCA is on the air! Listen to this hour-long interview with FCA Executive Director Joshua Slocum on Utah's KRCL Radio. Slocum joins casket-maker and consumer activist Dave Robles from Bannock Pride, and FCA of Utah President Joyce Mitchell to discuss consumer rights, funeral industry scams, and the pernicious influence of the funeral industry lobby.


TO LISTEN: Just click the button on the player, and it will stream to your speakers.


TO DOWNLOAD TO YOUR MP3 PLAYER OR COMPUTER: Right-click this link and choose "save as."

Last Updated ( Tuesday, 02 September 2008 17:23 )
 

5 Myths About Hospice

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Journalist and longtime hospice volunteer Judy Bachrach has another column for us in her signature, no-nonsense style. Got a question about dealing with dying, or what to do and not to do with the terminally ill? Visit her site The Checkout Line and click "Ask Judy."

FIVE HOSPICE MYTHS


Every time I tell people I volunteer at a hospice, the reaction is the same. Isn't it awfully depressing for you?

The answer is no - I'm not, after all, the person who's actually dying. If I were the person dying then, yes, probably I would be pretty unhappy about the situation, although not necessarily depressed. Hospice care can treat depression extremely effectively - in fact, since no one seems capable just yet of curing death, that's a lot of what hospices do: alleviating the many unpleasant side-effects of dying.

Last Updated ( Saturday, 23 August 2008 21:30 ) Read more...
 

Guest Blog - Judy Bachrach

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The Top 10 Things NOT to Say to the Terminally Ill

Dear Judy (one of my readers writes - a woman, I'm afraid), my husband's mother has recently been diagnosed with Alzheimer's, not in its last stages but bad enough. Her short-term memory is totally shot. My husband doesn't want to reveal the diagnosis to his mother; he says it's cruel. I'm tempted to tell her what she's got right now, behind his back. After all, she needs to start making plans. Besides in my experience, secrets are toxic.


Of all the remarks I regularly read regarding how to deal with the terminally ill, it's the secrets-are-toxic slogan that drives me totally nuts.. . .

Last Updated ( Tuesday, 22 July 2008 18:56 ) Read more...
 


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